Do you feel annoyed when your best friend speaks to some other friend of his/her too often? Feeling that way is fine because this feeling of yours comes due to the close relationship you share with your friend. But how far should you encourage this is a cause of concern. It’s good to be possessive but ‘over possessiveness’ might become a cause of rift in your friendship. You might not like it if your friend goes out with some other friend of his/her when you would like to spend time with your friend. But you should understand that your friend has other friends and might want to spend some time with them as well. You need to give space to your friend and vice-versa and not keep clinging on to each other or else this will result in you losing your best friend. No body wants to stay in an environment that’s suffocating.
Who doesn’t like some possessiveness? Who doesn’t like the feeling that you are a special person for your friend? In fact we all enjoy up to some extent this possessiveness but no one wants a friend who doesn’t understand you and the people around you.
Friendship is loving, caring, supporting and protecting your friend but not suffocating the person with your ‘over possessiveness’. Obviously your friend didn’t sign any contract stating that he/she will not speak or go out with anyone else other than you, then why not understand your friend and be protective and caring and up to some extent possessive and nurture the friendship to greater heights of understanding and support.
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1 comment:
Asha I completely agree with u at this blog but then when such situations arise they should be handled well too
to handle it communication becomes imp and both should try their best too
neway nice blogs and keep writing
hoping to read more
how is all there
tc bbye
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