Asha's Musings, Thoughts & Feelings: Touchy Touchy Matters

By the phrase touchy touchy matters here I mean a phenomenon that most of us girls go through in life...most of the times we experience unwanted male organs being rubbed against our bodies in a packed bus or take for that matter trains or any other crowded place. Please can anybody explain what is the motive or logic or whatever you call that behind this? Is it some kind of a hobby for the people or some kind of mental satisfaction that they get by doing so or are they so frustrated that they cant even spare kids who don’t understand what exactly they are going through?
These experiences can take a toll over children which can affect them very badly.... For god’s sake.....what heavenly experience do they get by rubbing their private parts against us for 3-4 seconds or just rubbing their shoulders over ours or just touching our hands? Can’t women be respected and cant people understand what kind of mental torture that is for people who are experiencing these? People should understand that it’s really hard for us to go through these when we return home tired after our work back home or after a whole hectic day doing our classes and tuitions...I mean this would be the last thing we would like to experience at the end of the day...really till today I dread going in a packed bus after my classes because I’ve had experienced these before and yes if people are of the opinion that it is because we don’t dress decently and motivate people to behave in that manner and crap like that...then please let me remind you that girls who are dressed decently even from top to bottom covering themselves also experiences this and so we can’t be blamed for other peoples action that are absolutely consciously done without the help of any motivators on our part. But one thing we should remember is that we need to be bold and even slap the person if needed or they just won’t stop....why should we bear something that we don’t deserve? Think about it...